Completely incomplete
I came across a good post today that I can completely relate to. Here it is check it out…I’ve copied and pasted my favorite parts from the post here.
It has a great quote from LIFESTORIES by Mark Hall lead singer from (Casting Crowns) whom I really love…
“When I’m not living for Jesus daily and show up at church after squeezing out life on my own terms all week, I’m needy when I walk through the doors.
- I need the greeter to make me feel welcome.
- I need my friends to sit by me.
- I need my soloist to sing my favourite song.
- I need the pastor to be engaging.
- I need the small group leader to love on me and do cartwheels when I enter.
- I need the small group leader to call me when I’m sick.
I am so needy because I’m not complete when I get there, and when I’m not being completed by my walk with Jesus, I unwittingly demand completeness from people. I raise the bar of expectations, and people don’t meet my needs because it is impossible for people to do so.”
Mark then goes on to contrast that to walking daily with Jesus.
“When I faithfully pursue God, spending time with Him in Bible study and a spirit of unceasing prayer, then I’m completed by Him. He indeed is all I need.
When I walk into church, I see people like He sees them. In other words, I recognize and acknowledge that I’m an instrument. I walk in and want to sit by others as a ministry. I want to help greet visitors. I want to make sure somebody called those who were sick. Why? Because a life of praise comes from understanding that this life is not about us. It’s about something bigger than us. It’s about loving God and loving others, the two greatest commandments.”
I completely relate to that. There are times when I walk into church and need others to be on their game…I need their encouragement, I need their smiles, their handshakes, their laughs, their hugs and pats on the back. I need their worship to be true and uplifting, their speaking/preaching to be thoughtful, encouraging, challenging and God breathed. Now I realize that’s not really fair…but that’s reality.
There are other times when I feel on my game… And I do feel that need to jump in and help others and get involved.
That’s one of the great things about being a part of the body. When one part is weak another is strong… We can’t always be on our game and when we’re not it’s nice to be able to count on people to help lift you up, strengthen you and bring you out of funk or something.
Next time you walk in the church doors or really any door this might be a good thing to think about. What do I need to do? What is today about? Am I full or empty? Complete or incomplete? Should I focus on receiving from others, receiving from God? Should I focus on giving to others, giving to God?
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